What is propoer etiquette for extending a verbal invitation to a couple when you know both people? - second birthday invitation rhyme
My husband has been pastor for 16 years and married for 3 years. Often, oral invitations for birthdays, dinners, parties or pensions because of us get to know some of the female members and invited by him - second-hand. Normally we do not make for the present in my. None were directly sent an invitation for me. Therefore, I can say that I was included in the invitation. Last Sunday, my husband and I were in his office and asked one of the ladies, what he was doing at any given time. He repeated the question a second time and said, "Well, you (and) my name. The inclusion of my name was almost like a side - a little bit. My husband did not see anything wrong, and I do not understand why I have a problem with his methods. Have you advise what to do?
3 comments:
Her husband received the call because he the pastor, is not it? It seems to me correct. I asked my rabbi of things (which never happens, at least not yet), and I always say, and take [the woman], please!
I have a friend, a minister. Often receives invitations, and then her husband is also included. Just get over it and accept the fact that he received the priest and invitations. So you do not do something. You have no right to women in the community, as they say, will extend the invitations.
I agree that the incident in the office was a bit awkward, and perhaps could do more to engage directly. But as problems go label, which is very low and should be no time to think about it.
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