Obsessive Compulsive Falling In Love Is It Considered Obsessive/Compulsive About Love??

Is it considered Obsessive/Compulsive about love?? - obsessive compulsive falling in love

I had an eye on the same person for 4 years since I was little. I learned that he was my best friend, and he also loved, and it took almost a whole year to get over it, but I do. Well I met this new man, fell in love again and again. But he still showed mixed signs and I finally had enough of him, and after 3 days after I arrived in a huge embarrassing moment with him and now I must continue. Why is it so difficult? I went anyway. And I've done before. It was not really even my friend, and he still acted like an idiot trying to be somebody I knew for sure was not. I'm too obsessed with the situation? Should not only be able to get over him? What should I do?